Dearest friends and family... This is not an angry rave of a single woman... I am anything but that... I am single but I am so far from angry... I am so content in my singleness the thought of a relationship just seems unnecessary not that I am one of those soap-boxing single girls raving about how I love being single so much that I swear off men completely... I am just so content in my relationship with God right now that is what simply occupy my thinking to the point that most of the time I forget that I am single or I am so happy living this way with Jesus that I forget other people do it differently... but this is mostly a precursor to the next part hence the "pre" I digress!
So here's the thing... I am single! I absolutely love all of my not single friends! I want you in my life! I would never trade the memories, the moments or the time I spend with you!
BUT... I am single and have been since... well birth... So I have chosen to take a none interference role in the aspect in my friends lives... which includes but is not limited to my girls, spiritual family, real family & friends! Which means... As far as your relationship with your significant other is concerned unless the Lord is yelling... GET OUT NOW! To you and you aren't listening! I have no opinions on how or who you are dating! Upon the request for advice on your relationship, or about if you are good for each other or good together, or whatever my answer will generally be the same!
What is the Lord telling you about your relationship?
Now I am not saying I don't want to know how you are doing or what new things you have learned about one another! I love that stuff... I simply choose not to speak into matters of the heart because I am human and no matter how well I hear from the Lord I still filter it through my opinions and understanding of the situation... which is often one sided... Know I am praying for you and your relationship! I am a very faithful prayer and I hold the covenant of Marriage very sacredly and pray that on each of your journeys toward it is literally moment by moment guided by the hand of the Lord the writer of the most incredible love story of all time.
I truly pray that for each of those in my life!
I love you all!
Alicia
